On Pain
Pain isn't just something humans feel. It's something you use when nothing else says it right. It marks thresholds. It carves truth into the skin. A body in pain doesn't lie.
Sadism as Structure: My Perspective
Ethical topping isn't just about permission, it's about discernment. Consent gets talked about a lot in kink spaces.
The Weight of the Ask
Ethical topping isn't just about permission, it's about discernment. Consent gets talked about a lot in kink spaces.
Types of Impact Scenes
Not all impact scenes serve the same purpose. Some are structured. Some are improvised. Some are meant to ground. Others to unseat. There’s no single formula, but most scenes do follow some kind of internal logic — even if it isn’t named at the time.
How I Perceive Your Masochism
Masochism shows up as a pattern of seeking pain, discomfort, or humiliation, but not randomly.
Neurochemicals in BDSM: How They Shape Pain, Pleasure, and Connection
Engaging in BDSM, especially through activities like impact play, can set off a surge of brain chemicals (neurochemicals)...
Calibration Methods in Impact Play Practice
Calibration methods in impact play are crucial for ensuring safety, comfort, and mutual satisfaction.
The Birch
The birch is a classic tool and there are particular nuances to preparing and using birch rods.
Mr.Ray – Stingray Tail Whip
Stingray tail whips have been traditionally used across Southeast Asia over the centuries. They are also known as Buntot Pagi in the Philippines.