Supporting Sign Language & Nonverbal Communication in Kink Spaces
Short Guide for DMs & Event Organisers: 1. Make Your Space Welcoming • Good Lighting: Ensure play areas, social zones, and exits have enough light for lip-reading and hand signals,…
Cigar Play Negotiation
Cigar play brings together service, sensation, control, and ritual in ways that can be deeply personal and powerful. It carries physical risks, emotional risks, and responsibilities for everyone involved. Good…
On Pain
Pain isn't just something humans feel. It's something you use when nothing else says it right. It marks thresholds. It carves truth into the skin. A body in pain doesn't lie.
Sadism as Structure: My Perspective
Ethical topping isn't just about permission, it's about discernment. Consent gets talked about a lot in kink spaces.
The Weight of the Ask
Ethical topping isn't just about permission, it's about discernment. Consent gets talked about a lot in kink spaces.