The Weight of the Ask
Ethical topping isn't just about permission, it's about discernment. Consent gets talked about a lot in kink spaces.
Types of Impact Scenes
Not all impact scenes serve the same purpose. Some are structured. Some are improvised. Some are meant to ground. Others to unseat. There’s no single formula, but most scenes do follow some kind of internal logic — even if it isn’t named at the time.
How I Perceive Your Masochism
Masochism shows up as a pattern of seeking pain, discomfort, or humiliation, but not randomly.