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Supporting Sign Language & Nonverbal Communication in Kink Spaces

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Short Guide for DMs & Event Organisers:

1. Make Your Space Welcoming

• Good Lighting:

Ensure play areas, social zones, and exits have enough light for lip-reading and hand signals, even if some areas are kept dark for mood.

• Clear Sightlines:

Arrange furniture and equipment so people can see each other and DMs can visually monitor scenes.

• Accessible Tours:

Offer pre-event walkthroughs so Deaf, hard-of-hearing, or disabled attendees can familiarise themselves with the space.

2. Train Your Team

• Teach Basic Hand Signals:

Make sure all DMs know key signals like:• Thumbs-up = OK• Thumbs-down = NOT OK• Flat hand, palm out = STOP• Fist = EMERGENCY STOP

Introduce a Check-in Gesture:

For example, 🤙 (pinky + thumb extended) to ask, “Are you okay?” Response: players can give a thumbs-up or shake their head.

• Understand Adapted Safewords:

Players may use:• Tapping out• Dropping an item• Pre-arranged gesturesInclude this in your DM briefings.

3. Support Negotiation & Safety

• Encourage Disclosure:

Let attendees know it’s safe to share access needs (e.g., “I’m nonverbal when gagged; here’s my signal”) and that DMs are trained to understand.

• Promote Pre-Negotiation:

Remind players to agree on nonverbal safewords or signals before scenes, especially if they use gags, blindfolds, or sensory deprivation.

• Have Backup Tools Ready:

Provide drop balls, scarves, or other signal items in your dungeon kit.

4. Build an Inclusive Culture

• Host ASL or visual communication workshops at your events.

• Invite Deaf and disabled educators to consult or lead classes.

• Consider a Disability Access Adviser on your organising team.

IMPORTANT

• Never assume a person’s abilities or preferences. Ask respectfully.

• Stay open to feedback from deaf, disabled, and neurodivergent players.

• Understand that accessibility is an ongoing practice, not a one-time fix.